Why expend energy towards being someone you’re not when you could just, you know, use that same energy to be a better you. At the end of the day, all we have is ourselves. It’s what makes you stand out in the crowd, it’s what makes you unique, it’s what makes you an original. Now more than ever with social media it’s hard to avoid images of what you should be, who you could be. Instead of fighting against yourself, look in. Looking inside for fulfillment will only ever deliver positive results. As the great RuPaul always says “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” Retrain the mind to see the good, to quiet the comparisons, and put yourself first. I promise it’ll pay off in the end.
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